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Honoring What’s Now While Creating What’s Next creating and making change lasting transformation life design mindset shift Jul 28, 2025

You don’t have to choose between stability and becoming.

Ever feel like you’re walking a tightrope between what you have to do and what you long to b...

So What? authentic leadership self creating and making change lasting transformation leadership identity transformation life design mindset shift Jun 16, 2025

Cross-legged on the floor, every cell in my body exhaled.

With each breath, I felt myself softening—relaxed, open, ready to receive.

I had final...

Standing At A Crossroads? When Chaos Is Actually A Call To Reinvent. creating and making change lasting transformation life design mindset shift Jun 09, 2025

My new client had answered the call—the first bold step in a deeper journey of self-actualization.

“Gena, I’m here.” (She...

Walk Into Your Next Level Identity. Reinvention Starts Here authentic leadership self business creating and making change lasting transformation leadership identity transformation life design Jun 02, 2025

What sparked this? One brilliant client's success.

I was reflecting on a powerhouse woman I’ve worked with across multiple 1

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Shame, Shame, I know Your Name… And It's Feeling 'Not Enough’ authentic leadership self creating and making change lasting transformation leadership identity transformation mindset shift May 26, 2025

Not the “walk of shame” you were expecting...

This isn’t about returning from an all night party or being ejected from a gam

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Not Sure What’s Next? Follow the Whisper… lasting transformation leadership identity transformation life design mindset shift May 12, 2025

Have you ever felt it?

That restless ache beneath the surface—the sense that there’s something more, something waiting, just out of reach.

May...

Fear As Fuel business lasting transformation leadership identity transformation life design mindset shift May 05, 2025

I’m not usually one to theme my weeks — but lately, one word has echoed across every single client session: Fear.

The fear of being seen.
The fear ...

Success Is In The Details business creating and making change lasting transformation leadership identity transformation life design mindset shift Apr 21, 2025

When I made the decision to build my coaching business, I was fueled by excitement and vision. I pictured the big break

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If You Aren't Failing - You Aren't Succeeding authentic leadership self business lasting transformation leadership identity transformation life design mindset shift Apr 14, 2025

I embrace failing. I help my clients embrace failing.

If you aren't failing - you aren't succeeding.

And let me tell you—it

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Your Presence Is Power authentic leadership self business creating and making change lasting transformation leadership identity transformation Apr 02, 2025

While strategizing her next-level roadmap, my executive client and I reflected on her epic breakthroughs and progress. She shared something that stuck...

Debunking The Biggest Myth To Your Next Level Success authentic leadership self business creating and making change lasting transformation life design mindset shift Mar 26, 2025

I woke up feeling like an alien had slipped a psychotropic drug into my morning tea, as if an existential crisis were simmering

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Change Will Come & ‘Status Quo’ Will Go creating and making change lasting transformation life design mindset shift Mar 19, 2025

Life is rolling along. You’ve cracked the morning routine - bike ride, study, healthy breakfast, off to work. You’re handling yo

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