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The Compliment Conundrum: Just A Habit To Break authentic leadership self leadership identity transformation life design mindset shift May 19, 2025

Ever had someone lock eyes with you and say, “Wow, you’re incredible!”—and your gut reaction was to dodge it?

Maybe you laughed it off, downplayed ...

Not Sure What’s Next? Follow the Whisper… lasting transformation leadership identity transformation life design mindset shift May 12, 2025

Have you ever felt it?

That restless ache beneath the surface—the sense that there’s something more, something waiting, just out of reach.

May...

Fear As Fuel business lasting transformation leadership identity transformation life design mindset shift May 05, 2025

I’m not usually one to theme my weeks — but lately, one word has echoed across every single client session: Fear.

The fear of being seen.
The fear ...

Stressed Out In The Caribbean - No More authentic leadership self business creating and making change life design mindset shift Apr 28, 2025

“Yeah, mon… the internet's not working. But it's all good—listen to the music, feel the sun on your face, the ocean at you

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Success Is In The Details business creating and making change lasting transformation leadership identity transformation life design mindset shift Apr 21, 2025

When I made the decision to build my coaching business, I was fueled by excitement and vision. I pictured the big break

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If You Aren't Failing - You Aren't Succeeding authentic leadership self business lasting transformation leadership identity transformation life design mindset shift Apr 14, 2025

I embrace failing. I help my clients embrace failing.

If you aren't failing - you aren't succeeding.

And let me tell you—it

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Corporate Called. She Let It Go to VM. authentic leadership self business creating and making change leadership identity transformation life design mindset shift Apr 07, 2025

"Hey Mom, You Finally Got Your Corner Office!"

She had it all—the title, the accolades, the compensation that matched

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Debunking The Biggest Myth To Your Next Level Success authentic leadership self business creating and making change lasting transformation life design mindset shift Mar 26, 2025

I woke up feeling like an alien had slipped a psychotropic drug into my morning tea, as if an existential crisis were simmering

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Change Will Come & ‘Status Quo’ Will Go creating and making change lasting transformation life design mindset shift Mar 19, 2025

Life is rolling along. You’ve cracked the morning routine - bike ride, study, healthy breakfast, off to work. You’re handling yo

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Solo, But Not Alone authentic leadership self business creating and making change life design mindset shift Mar 12, 2025

A “solopreneur” is an entrepreneur who does everything - operations, management, service and product delivery, troubleshooting the printer, and occasi...

I AM Positive, This Sucks authentic leadership self business lasting transformation life design mindset shift Feb 25, 2025

NOT feeling what you want to feel when you want to feel it sucks!

My morning coaching session kicked off as most client sessions do, me asking “Wh...

Resolve to Break The Resolution Cycle authentic leadership self creating and making change lasting transformation life design mindset shift Dec 23, 2024

Bomb shell!!! Channeling Nancy Grace here…

Researchers suggest that only 9% of people that make resolutions complete them

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