Scrolling For Success

authentic leadership self business creating and making change leadership identity transformation mindset shift Aug 04, 2025

"Success" the new commodity.

Sold to you in 60-second reels, 12-step routines, and billion-dollar soundbites.
Everyone’s got a formula.
But none of them were built for your life.
 
You scroll.
You swipe.

You’re hit with it from every angle:
Cold plunges.
Evening brain dumps.
Real self-care not pampering.
5AM sprints, green juices, silent retreats.
Unwavering focus on a single skill - a single goal. 
 
Shark Tank billionaires. Manifesting millionaires.
Invest here - divest there.
Influencers screaming from their ring lights:
“Do this and you’ll be successful.”
 
And yep, I’ve even tossed my own hat into the ring with Friday mini mindset shifts.
Because sure, hacks and brain science can help.
But even then… only if they’re in alignment with you.
 
It’s exhausting.
And let’s be honest - it's a discombobulation of confusion.
 
There are over 100,000 self‑help podcasts, and short‑form videos that get hundreds of billions of views a day all selling someone else’s formula for success.
 
One minute you're inspired.
The next, you're spiraling into "I’m not doing enough."
 
Calgon, take me away.
You’re oversaturated with advice on how to “live your best life.”
And honestly, what even is success anymore?
 
Here’s the paradox:
I appreciate the diversity of voices out there.
It reflects a deeper truth.
Success isn’t universal. It’s personal.
What fits me may not fit you.
And that is exactly why defining success on your terms matters more than ever.
 
Stay out of the spin - I've got you 
You don’t need their routine. 
You need your own damn rhythm.
 
It’s not about replicating someone else’s highlight reel.
It’s about starting right where you are.
In your body. In your truth. In your chaos.
 
Sure I'm all about the R+D (Rob and Duplicate) when it's strategic (and with integrity).Your success isn’t about what you copy. It’s about what you claim.
 
So pause the scroll.
Breathe.
And ask yourself:
 
What does success look like for ME?
 
Not your mom.
Not your mentor.
Not the latest 6-figure internet guru.
 
Just you.
Right now.
 
Take one step.
A real one.
A meaningful one.
 
Start where it’s messy.
Start where it’s honest.
Start now.
 
Because clarity doesn’t come from scrolling.
It comes from starting.
 
What if the thing you’re searching for isn’t out there…
but in the next decision you make?

Start where you are. 
That’s where everything begins.
Make the decision that moves you.
 
→ Tell me where you want to start and I'll show you how you get that next level success.
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